What’s inside

A field guide to actually getting closer

The Closeness Deck: 270+ Deep Questions, Dares & Rituals for Couples

Get curious about each other again.

For couples who still care deeply—but notice most conversations have become logistics. Turn twenty quiet minutes into a conversation neither of you planned.

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Closeness should feel invited, not extracted.

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Try the feeling

One good question changes the room.

The deck does not push you straight into vulnerability. It gives both of you a shared place to begin, then lets the conversation find its own depth.

A question from the deck

What’s a small thing you’re weirdly proud of that has nothing to do with your job?

Choose tonight’s door

Start where your relationship actually is.

This is not a random prompt dump. Each section has a distinct emotional temperature, so you can choose what fits instead of forcing a mood.

New & curious

Go beyond the interview

First-date and new-relationship prompts that make room for surprise without getting too intense too soon.

Long-term love

Meet the person behind the routine

Deep questions for rediscovering the partner you already know—and the parts you may have stopped asking about.

Playful

Make honesty feel lighter

Truth or Dare, Would You Rather, and This or That prompts that reveal more than the obvious answer.

Reconnecting

Find a path back to “us”

A dedicated question pack and ten-session intensive for couples who have drifted but still want to turn toward each other.

An invitation, never a test

A softer way into the honest conversation.

Pass whenever you need to. Start light. Let curiosity—not pressure—set the pace for both of you.

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Inside the book

More than a list of questions.

A deliberately paced set of conversation formats, shared experiences, and small rituals you can return to whenever closeness needs somewhere to begin.

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  • 30The 30-Day Closeness PathA day-by-day route from noticing to everyday presence.
  • 10Reconnection IntensiveTen focused sessions for couples who know they have drifted.
  • 13Presence RitualsMostly wordless practices built around attention, timing, touch, and shared pauses.
  • 22Date nights at homeStructured evenings without another reservation or night spent scrolling separately.

A simple ritual

You only need twenty unhurried minutes.

STEP 01

Choose the right section

Pick for the relationship and energy you have tonight—not the version you think you should have.

STEP 02

Take turns answering

Read from one device or print the PDF. Pass freely, pause when needed, and let one answer lead somewhere unexpected.

STEP 03

Stop counting questions

The goal is not finishing a list. If three questions create forty minutes of real conversation, the deck worked.

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Good to know

Before you open the first question.

Clear answers, so you know exactly what you’re buying and how to use it.

What language is the PDF available in?

The PDF content is currently available in English. The landing page can be viewed in English, Greek, Spanish, and French.

Is this a physical card deck?

No. It is a downloadable PDF you can open on a phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop, or print at home. Nothing will be shipped.

Do we need to complete all 270+ prompts?

Not at all. Answer one question, spend twenty minutes with a section, build an evening around a date-night format, or follow one of the guided programs.

Do I need the Bonded app?

No account, app, or subscription is required. A few rituals mention the app as an optional layer, and each includes a version that works without it.

Is it only for romantic couples?

It is written primarily for couples, but many deep questions and reconnection prompts also work between close friends, siblings, or family members.

What if a question feels too personal?

Pass. The deck explicitly treats passing, consent, and emotional safety as part of the experience. Closeness should feel invited, not extracted.

Can this replace couples therapy?

No. The Closeness Deck is a conversation and connection tool, not therapy, crisis support, or professional relationship treatment.

For tonight, or the nights you need it

Ask one question. See what opens.

Download the complete deck now and choose the section that feels right for the two of you.

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